Hot Flash 1 You know you’ve hit 50 when: Wait servers start calling you Ma’am. While I love it when a Military person addresses me as “Ma’am”—when a HOT gorgeous 20 something year old male wait server does so, it’s downright painful! It’s even worse when a cute, young, sweet female uses Ma’am, you immediately … More HOT FLASH….. You know you’ve hit 50 WHEN…….