I really want you to think about those glorious days when you first started dating your special someone.
Can you remember those passionate kisses, the strong emotional feelings, the erotic touching? You knew exactly what he wanted and you wanted it too. Simply stated, sex was fabulous. Thank goodness for those memories.
How times have changed. Now you’re married, have kids, work a job and to say your life is busy, hectic, and downright stressful is the understatement of the year.
But the good news is that through all of this you and your husband still love each other. You’ve figured out a rhythm to balance your life, and you’ve actually become good friends. Wow, friendship is great. But…(another but) isn’t that a bit boring. Friendship is fine, but passion is perfect.
I believe every long-standing relationship needs constant attention. In UndercoverWear our motto was, ,“Never let your monogamous relationship become a monotonous relationship.”
I strongly believe it is essential for women to put as much time and energy into their marriage as they put into their job, children, social life, and other aspects of their life. I strongly believe it is essential for women to put as much time and energy into their marriage as they put into their job, children, social life, and other aspects of their life. Click To Tweet It really frosts my cookies when women spend more time deciding what to wear to a luncheon with girlfriends than the time they spend deciding what to wear with their husband — in or out of the bedroom.
Isn’t our marriage supposed to be the most important relationship we have?
I’m not letting “him” off the hook. Clearly most men pay very little attention to romance. As we all well know, intimacy has very different meanings for men and women. For men, if sex isn’t involved ….there was no intimacy. For women, a romantic dinner can be very intimate. Or course, there are exceptions, but generally my statements are accurate.
How do I know?
In my professional career, I have worked with over 100,000 women—which pretty much makes me an expert on love, relationship and men! (All those women share their stories) If you want to have a warm, loving, passionate relationship, you better not leave it up to “your man.” As women we take the lead in almost every aspect of our lives, so why not take the lead here as well.
How about if become “Addicted to Romance”? I have developed a 12 Step Program that is guaranteed to help with just that. If you want to keep your marriage fun, fresh, romantic, and exciting, if you want to hear more, “Say Yes –my relationship is important to me…Tiffany, tell me more!”